One particular morning, my day
started challenged because I was already late for work.
There were people to see, calls
to return, and multiple assignments to complete.
The obvious challenge was how
to finished them all in a shorten day.
However, the challenge
unbeknownst to me would occur as I boarded the bus that put me at my work place
five minutes shy of being an hour late.
As I paid my fare, I noticed a
gentleman wearing a navy blue baseball cap and jacket, with gold wire-framed glasses from a
couple of decades past.
He motioned me to sit next to
him by patting the seat adjacent to him.
My new challenge was now to
make a decision in two seconds because he was sitting directly behind the
driver.
Should I just ignore him and
proceed to one of the many empty seats that were available; where I could sit
by myself and read a book like I normally would do.
Besides, no one would accuse me
of being rude since he was a stranger.
Or, I could step out of my
comfort zone and take a chance on sitting next to this unfamiliar person.
I reasoned for my final second
and decided that not much could possibly happen on the bus in the morning
during rush hour, or at least I hoped.
Something about him put me at
ease, though.
"My name is Robert. What's your name?" He asked.
I told him my name and then he showed me a self-portrait he was
sketching of himself on a piece wide ruled notebook paper.
It was now obvious to me that
Robert had some mental challenges. But
that didn't bother me.
Literally speaking, I have been
around people with mental challenges all my life.
Robert went on to ask me where
I was going, where I lived and where I worked, inquisitive to say the least.
Then again, he was just as
opened about sharing information as he was about obtaining it.
Robert then asked, "What time
do you get off work?"
I wondered if this was a loaded
question. I responded, "Five". Robert replied, "You are going to be tired!
I laughed out of amusement and
relief.
As the driver approached
Robert's stop, he gave me the sketch of himself and challenged me by asking,
"Where are you going to put it?"
I told him that I would put it
in my bedroom.
I left out the part about how
it would be tucked inside a book in my bedroom.
I was amused again as I thought
about how could I possibly have a picture of another man in my bedroom with a
husband anyway.
As Robert exited the bus, he
turned back to me and said, "Be
careful." I nodded in agreement.
As I reflected over our conversation,
I suddenly realized that Robert had made my day with his simple act of
kindness.
I'm sure everything is simple
for Robert. He's excited about simple
things like going to work, his sketches and meeting new people on the bus.
On the contrary, everyone else
on the bus was probably hitting the fast-forward button in his or her mind to
5:00pm; never noticing for a moment that they were in good company.
I'm sure Robert was the
happiest person on the bus that day. It
makes one wonder . . .
"Who's really mentally challenged?"



